Well I know I have NEGLECTED my blog page. But so much has happen since the last time I’ve updated it. I have decided that I can NOT go on this long without writing in it. I love looking back and seeing how much my life has changed in so many ways. There is so much to say and I don’t know where about to start. hum…
Okay.. So we got two beautiful ((yet over whelming at times)) Dogs.Rajah - Our Lab/ Pit Mix and Lala - Our Chorkie!! They have seriously made our lives so eventful. There is not a dull moment with these two furry babies. They are a handful at times but I love them both so much!! I may not have given birth to them but they are my babies.
Then there was the “BIG Move” from basically my ENTIRE LIFE in Califofrnia to the Gloomy Washington State.
((Which reminds me I need to update my profile info)) We’ve been here almost 5 months and it not what everyone describes it to be. First of all, It does not rain here ALL the time. haha!! Since we’ve been here its got really cold at times but its only snowed once.
We were hoping it would have snowed on Christmas or New Years, but… it didn’t. Hopefully We’ll see some snow before the winter is over. But as for now it just is gloomy with ((if anything)) some light drizzle.
Oh yeah.. I totally forgot to add 4 things.. Once we got here i joined a woman’s volleyball team on base. We were the “Mountaineers”. Since there was a group of us that didn’t have a team we just made one up on the spot. One of the girls picked that name since we needed a name and couldnt come up with anything else. ((lol.. yeah lame i know. but it worked)) We had won a few games, but not enough for us to brag about.
Oh and the second thing I forgot to mention was that My brother finally completed his 3 year sentence to jail. It had been such an emotional roller coaster with his gone. I relayed on him so much for so many years ((he was more than a brother, he was my bestest friend)) that once he was gone I felt like I had no-one to turn to. But now that chapter is finally closed, I am so blessed that he’s here for good!! You can’t judge a book by is cover, until you’ve read the whole story.Third, before Christmas, we flew to Maryland to see Brian’s sister and her family. Boy was that an interesting visit. It first didn’t start off terrific as i was praying for it to be. But as the lord is my witness, he turned things around. I am not going to lie. That visit did effect our marriage in many ways. Some positive and some negative. Although, it was great seeing all of Brian’s family together in one place ((Finally, a first in many many years)), I am glad things were said and we all can finally move on and learn from our misunderstandings. I just hope that we will hear from everyone again soon. Last but not least, since we’re at a new command. I was asked to be the Command Ombudsman. It is a big job in the Navy Wife community. Very few wives volunteer or even stay committed to this position. This position deals with both the command and the families attached to the command. I do love it, but since our command is small, its not enough to keep me fully occupied ((meaning I still have a LOT of free time)).
Moving forward to today.. My really good friend Liz ((AKA: MyBoo)) has moved here as well. She’s about an hour away but having her here means so much to me. As for Brian and I, we’re going to marriage counseling about twice a month to help with our communication and work towards a better marriage. Since we’ve been through two deployments back to back, family problems and a big move, somewhere we kinda lost that burning flame. Although, I was very ashamed, embarrassed, and hurt of where our relationship was at ((back than)). I am so blessed that we’ve both continued to take our vows seriously, which has made our relationship much stronger. Our flame is not on fire as we would love for it to be, but as we continue to work out our problems and enjoy each other as we can while we’re here on shore duty ((3 years without having him leave for a deployment)). Despite all of that… Right now, in my life I can honestly say I am content. Minus two minor things.. a baby and a job. A baby will come in due time and as for a job I have a few interviews lined up this week. ((Which I’m excited about!!))
Well.. I think this just about sums up everything that I’ve missed. I promise to dedicate my time to Tumblr at least once a week. Even if my week is boring. Hahaha!
Its always a pleasure having someone that honest and lets you know when you have something in your teeth. Lol. . Good times with the hubs ♥
Happy Anniversary To Us :D Today marks the 1st day that we started dating. It has been an interesting 3 years But we couldn’t have made it this far without God by our side. Cheers and blessings for more years to come ♥